A big typhoon pummels Japan, thoughts on the concept of "standing out" and a fun word of Japanese for you

September is storm season in Japan, as we were reminded when Typhoon Fitow -- designated boringly as Typhoon No. 9 here in Japan -- gave the country a good pummeling yesterday. While the majority of typhoons tend to threaten the southern islands like Okinawa and Kyushu, this strong storm landed smack in the Kanto area, bringing buckets of rain and winds of up to 108 kph/67 mph right into Tokyo and moving up the main Japanese island of Honshu. Throughout the country, flights were cancelled, Shinkansen stopped running, and even several subway lines had to be closed down due to strong winds, which stranded thousands. Our house shook like a continual earthquake, but aside from downed branches and scattered debris, there was no major damage.

In a monocultural place like Japan, the idea of "standing out" is viewed a little differently than how it would be in America or Europe, and living as a foreigner here means being at peace with sticking out a bit. As a general rule, whenever I go to the movies, head to the public bath or participate in some activity with my daughter's Girl Scout Troop, I'm likely to be the only foreigner around, and that means I'll often be getting more than my share of attention. This will take the form of a general awareness of my being there, so I go out of my way to use polite Japanese in public to make a good impression, and I make sure my kids use polite Japanese too, or speak English. There are times my unique status in Japan can work to my advantage, since most people who meet me once will remember my name, as I'm the only foreigner they've talked with all year, or perhaps in many years. While adults are polite about not staring, children often don't know better, and I've had gaijin friends who really couldn't handle having kids watching them all the time. (I find its better to strike up a conversation with the kids in Japanese to reassure them that I'm not from Mars.) It's not like there are so few foreigners in our city that Japanese people are shocked when they see one; rather, it's that the bulk of the gaijin population here, which are from countries like Brazil and Peru and Pakistan, don't cross into straight "Japanese" territory as much as I do, and hence I find myself in situations where there are no other foreigners around me more often than not.

When you study Japanese, you have to learn more than just grammar, vocabulary and the writing systems -- you need to get used to the subtlety of the language, of what is said directly and what is simply assumed. This can sound impossibly hard at first, but with practice and experience students can pick it up. One word that describes the famous vagueness of Japanese is nantonaku, which can be translated as "by feeling" "for some reason" or "without thinking about it." Often, comprehending Japanese is a mixture of considering what is said and what is silently understood, for example, picking up the subject of a sentence even though it's omitted. I found the best way to expose myself to the vagueness of spoken Japanese was to read lots of manga, which gave me a constant source of input of spoken language, since manga is almost entirely dialogue. If you want to surprise a Japanese person, memorize this word. If they ask you why you know something they don't expect foreigners to know, just answer "Nantonaku." ("Don't ask me, I just know.")

Remember, you can now get your very own custom-made kanji name stamp from J-List, with our Custom Hanko Service. Choose one of three Japanese name stamps and let us know what kanji characters or message you'd like printed on the stamp, and the J-List staff will work with you to come up with the best kanji for you, then make your stamp. Stamps can be made using hiragana, katakana, kanji, or even the Roman alphabet.

This month's "Game of the Month" is Sensei 2 from G-Collections. One of the most popular games released by the company, your goal is to find love and more with your new teacher. A gorgeous game by Hirohisa Onikubo who is a talented manga-ka as well. The game is available at a special price this month -- check it out now!

Here are today's "really cool products" that I thought were especially noteworthy. Note: the J-List links below may be for adult products and should probably be considered "not safe for work" (a yes/no verification screen will be displayed to filter products from our mature site). To see all the J-List products, check out J-List or the JBOX.com updated products link. We also recommend watching our "new products" RSS feed

	More and More -- Rin Aoki. Rin Aoki is, ahem, a very healthy woman, I'd say.
	Shirt and Eyeglass -- Maki Ogawa. New photobook for fans of meganekko.
	You Know You've Been In Japan Too Long.... Ha! I've long been the editor of the "YBIJTLW" list, and now someone's made a book of it...
	Cure vol. 46 May 2007. Great visuals in the new issue of Cure. I love the J-Rocker with the "Cats" prosthetic on his face.
	Kanna no Suigyo 2 ~ Kanna's Intimacy 2. If I ever discovered I were immortal, I would learn to draw as well as this guy...
	Toshihide Sano Illustrations. Man, is this guy an amazing illustrator, or what?
	Pinky Street -- PK016 ~ Clover Print One-piece. Incredibly cute Pinky Street figure, which just came in. So fun and fashionable!
	Pinky Street -- PK017 ~ Cool Gray Suit. This is the other one we're posting today. Very boyish and proper.
	BLUE DRAGON Bento Set ~ Tight 2-tier Box & Chopsticks. Blue Dragon is getting really popular in Japan. It's "the" anime to watch these days, and so we're posting this great bento box to the site.
	Japanese Sake Brand "Scissors Bag" w/ Carabiner ~ Shira-Yuki -- Black. "The mountain is Mt. Fuji. The sake is Shirayuki."
	Onegai JIZO -- Lucky Monk ~ Fortune. Cute little Japanese god who will bring you good luck.
	DX Women's Satin Kimono with Maiko in Kyoto Pattern ~ Pink. A cool kimono from Japan for you.
	Hello Kitty Training Chopsticks. Hello Kitty training chopsticks. Great for little hands.
	Kabaya Stone-Baked Sweet Potato Pretzel. Delicious sweet potato snacks, which taste just like stone-baked yaki-imo.
	Baby Star Ramen Snack -- Chowmein . If I had to pick just three Japanese snacks to take on a desert island, this would be one of them.
	Arcueid Brunestud 1/8 Figure ~ Melty Bood. Fantastic character from the popular Japanese Playstation game.

This is the inside of a Japanese hospital. I couldn't take pictures with all the old people there, so I chose this hallway.

What kind of stomach do YOU have?

Uh, that's me. Now you know more about me than my wife.

An advertisement for Japanese nurses. I guess they don't have enough of them. As with the U.S. Japan is importing nurses from the Philippines.

My car, during the typhoon.

I happened to see some guy's Cadillac Escalade. Can you imagine what cojones it takes to drive one of those giant cars in Japan?