Rising Divorce Culture in Japan?
It's often said that Japan's society follows a decade or so behind the U.S., and looking at such areas as the adoption of laws about smoking in public places or child safety seats in cars, that statement seems to be pretty accurate. Sadly, Japan's divorce rate has also followed this trend, and the number of couples calling it quits is higher than ever. Currently there are 2.3 divorces per thousand people in Japan, compared with around 3.6 for the U.S, 2.2 for Canada, and 2.8 for the U.K. These numbers sound pretty much in line with the rest of the world, except when you consider that just a generation ago Japan's divorce-per-thousand was under 1. The social pressures that have been driving the increase are many, including less economic reliance on the husband by women and a decrease of stigmas about being batsu-ichi, or "one strike out," a common slang for someone who has been divorced once. A big trend is the rise in jukunen rikon, or "middle-aged divorce," when couples find their marriage can't survive the husband retiring and hanging around the wife and her friends all day (the term for such husbands is nure-ochiba, noo-reh-OH-chi-bah, a wet leaf that sticks to your shoe and won't come off, no matter how hard you shake it). This trend has been aided by recent laws making it easier for women to claim half their husband's pension if they were together for a certain number of years, which has lead to many books and articles advising women on the best "divorce strategy."




4 Comments:
Peter - is "2.3 divorces per thousand people" an annual figure?
In the US it seems that about 50% of all marriages eventually end in divorce, but of course that usually takes a few years.
Cheers,
6:02 AM
I think it's per thousand, annual, yes. Some sites quoted "per married woman" which I guess is the same thing outside of Utah ^_^
I think the "50%" figure has fallen in the U.S., and is now officially at"43% from what I read. Less divorce is good. In Japan, the age of marriage keeps going up and is up to 30 for men and 28-29 for women on average. I wonder where it's going in the U.S.? Seems that if people would wait a little (ahem, my neice Jenny, with three kids by the age of 25, ugh) they'd make better choices.
11:33 AM
That news about the "New Divorced Character" sounds absolutely surreal to me! Only in Japan... :)
3:42 AM
I think the average age of marriage is also going up in the US, but our decline in divorce rates may also be due to many folks no longer getting married at all - even if they're producing children. This is big change in American culture, that curiously isn't debated much.
In General, single parent families aren't as desirable as the traditional family, but there are always exceptions (Ex: some people shouldn't have contact with other humans, even their children).
In a Utopian world, people wouldn't conceive children or enter into marriage before they understood life very well. That's not likely to happen any time soon.
Give my regards to Jenny - she's in a tough spot . . .
4:29 AM
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