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Friday, April 18, 2008

What Shall We Do About Summer?

My family is going through our annual "what are we going to do about summer?" decision-making process, trying to make plans for our kids to go to the U.S. Figuring out what to do with kids during summer vacation is a challenge for any parent, I'm sure, but in our case it's extra difficult due to various cultural and scheduling differences between Japan and America. First of all, summer vacation is very short in Japan, being only six weeks long, so the time we have to work with is quite limited. We like to find activities for our kids that will help them maintain their English skills, like Girl Scout Camp for my daughter and various science-related camps for my son, but choosing the right program is never easy. While I think summer should be a time for kids to relax and have new experiences at a leisurely pace, my wife always goes into kyoiku mama ("education mother") mode, insisting that anything we choose for the kids to do have serious academic value. While the idea of doing homework over the summer break is totally alien to American children, kids in Japan aren't so lucky. In addition to everything else, we've got to factor in about 20-30 hours for the mountain of homework my kids will have to work through before school starts in September.

6 Comments:

Blogger Peter in Japan said...

So are there "kyoiku mama" types in the U.S.? My mother wasn't at all...

2:27 AM

 
Blogger scaramanga said...

helicopter parents might be a good equivalent
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helicopter_parent

3:00 AM

 
Blogger SailorAlphaCentauri said...

They tend to be rarer in the U.S. than in Japan, but I'm starting to see more helicopter parents now than when I was a kid & I graduated from high school twelve years ago.

3:55 AM

 
Blogger Spruce Moose said...

I wouldn't say homework over vacation is alien to American kids. The pressure to take college-level AP classes is ever increasing for high school kids, and those classes almost always require a great deal of summer work. And it's becoming increasingly common for some sort of required reading to be assigned to any high school or even younger student, which may or may not have additional assignments attached to it.

I'm not sure how prevalent summer work is becoming for the elementary school grades, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's on the rise, considering the pressure that's being put on these kids to do well on state testing standards.

4:44 AM

 
Blogger timo said...

I'm led to wonder whether, one day, your children would want to stay in America. To them it must seem, ah, "kakko ii".

5:37 AM

 
Blogger Peter in Japan said...

Helicopter Parents, great term!

11:07 AM

 

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